Life’s Directive – The Cliché Relationship

It looks like I’m back to life’s roadmap this morning. And it would seem that I’m piecing this blog back to its original intent, which was simply to help broaden horizons and spruce up relationships…I think. It’s hard to remember just how I felt before my codependent epiphany, but that’s the gist of it. Relationship advice. Objective, yet experienced opinion/advice. Only now it has a new layer of my own unique wisdom from this very winding psychospiritual journey tied into.

The Wisdom Part

There is wisdom in your past. Wisdom beyond the immediate circumstance. And this wisdom is found in the opinions. The words which stand out to you, right now. There is no right or wrong. You just need to learn how to listen to your intuition. What really stands out to you.

Begin learning how to identify the tone of your ego compared to the tone of your higher self. Because they are distinctly different.

The Relationship Part

Having embodied this psychospiritual way of life, I can see more clearly that we’re not all looking for someone to “complete” us. Or even looking for someone to share time with us. We’re hoping to “complete” ourselves, be confident in who we are so that we function smoothly through life’s ups and downs. But we simply don’t know how. Why? Because the outer world is deafening.

I’ve found that the way to build this confidence is to keep the outer world in perspective, make your inner world the priority, so you may look objectively at your past and extract the wisdom which underlies each circumstance. This is also how you begin to embody those inspiring social media posts. This is how your relationships become complimenting, not complicating.

The way to having the ideal relationship begins and ends with knowing who you are and feeling so connected to that person nothing can shake your life’s experience.

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About the author

The Enlightened Spectacle blog uses the exes, codependent tendencies, and esoteric thoughts of one woman in search of life’s deeper meaning as the inspiration for you to deviate from social norms, gain new perspectives, and embrace the darkness on your own Path of Enlightenment.

Josie de Vere is evolving thinker who happens to be codependent and also a writer. Hoping her journey through the darkness to know enlightenment inspires others along the way.

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